Ehhh shit happens

I wonder if this philosophy that i've been following is really the right way for me. All my life, I never get too too caught up in things that spontaneously happen. The reason being is because I like to follow the "shit happens" philosphy.

For example, if you made plans with people and a couple hours before the event takes place they all bail on you, sure you get angry, but y'know what.... Shit happens. It's just natural that someone gets caught up doing something or is called in for an emergency or something. You can't really get mad and STAY mad just because they bailed on you. It's just stupid!

Why bother going through all the drama/greif/heartache (in some cases) when you can just shrug it off and let it be.

Personally I think that could be one of my very downfalls when dealing with people. Moreso when i'm in a relationship or something. People might think that I don't care, but they're wrong. If it's something that emotionally hurts the other person then I do care for YOU. I'll be there for you, I don't mind, but the situation itself well "shit happens". The thing that i've taught myself over the years is to brush it off, play it off as if nothing happened. this has been good and bad at the same time.

The good is that i've been able to keep many of my friendships. The bad is like I stated above, people might think I don't care. So is this trade-off really worth it? Maybe it's just me and i'm just too nice or something. That's quite possible. But who knows. I'm too freaking tired to think about anything so i'm just going to pass the fuck out